I realized that:
1. The REAL definition of work is an activity one DOES NOT enjoy!
2. The REAL definition of PLAY is an activity one DOES enjoy!
In the past my children have angrily accused me of playing all the time. I was always feeling defensive because I cleaned the house, made the meals, did the laundry etc, helped with schoolwork and any project that came along, even at 1:00 am. I realize now that my children were accurate in their accusation. I do play all the time because I am able to thoroughly enjoy most of my tasks (thanks Stephanie for pointing out the truth)
I began analyzing my day. I found that I very seldom WORK. My work really only happens about 5 hours a week when I am forced by my family's need to survive, to go to town to shop for groceries.
I enjoy cleaning and organizing my home, therefore it is PLAY!
I enjoy PLAYING on my computer, editing book, playing with photoshop, etc.
I enjoy learning new languages, studying and reading.
I enjoy my church callings, especially teaching classes.
I love learning and practicing everything possible about energy.
I absolutely LOVE learning NEW, EXCITING things!
The things that fall in between WORK and PLAY are making meals and being creative, such as cross stitching. They should be, and in the past have been PLAY, but at this time feel stressful. I have determined I need to fix the problems so that these two activities will return to the PLAY category. I want to change my attitude for shopping and then that will be PLAY too!
It will be a Wonderful Life when I am able to PLAY ALL DAY and NEVER WORK! (See definitions above for WORK and PLAY)
1 comment:
Thank you so much for the reminder of the difference of work and play. With you I've lost some of my perspective and what used to be play for me has become work. Starting today (okay actually a couple of weeks ago...it's been a process I've been working - wait playing! - towards. :D) I am shifting my attitude and enjoying all the things I get to do. After all I know that there are plenty of women who would love to be able to do what I'm blessed with the opportunity to do. (Okay that sentence was a mouthful...point being I'm blessed and am with you in making my day all about play!)
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