July 13, 2010

Work Vs. Play

In May I took a class in which we discussed the importance of having a balanced schedule. The teacher shared her ideal schedule with us. She is to WORK one hour a day and PLAY ten hours a day. I am very aware of what this incredible woman does with her time so I immediately judged that she was not practicing what she was preaching. The shock came when she explained that it was very important to determine what the word WORK and PLAY means. For example, anything/everything to do with her business, especially creating a new essential oil blend, was PLAY to her. She indeed was PLAYING ten hours a day as she created her oil blends, taught her students and wrote her books on Energy. She WORKED one hour a day as she tidied her home in the evening.

I realized that:
1. The REAL definition of work is an activity one DOES NOT enjoy!
2. The REAL definition of PLAY is an activity one DOES enjoy!

In the past my children have angrily accused me of playing all the time. I was always feeling defensive because I cleaned the house, made the meals, did the laundry etc, helped with schoolwork and any project that came along, even at 1:00 am. I realize now that my children were accurate in their accusation. I do play all the time because I am able to thoroughly enjoy most of my tasks (thanks Stephanie for pointing out the truth)

I began analyzing my day. I found that I very seldom WORK. My work really only happens about 5 hours a week when I am forced by my family's need to survive, to go to town to shop for groceries.

I enjoy cleaning and organizing my home, therefore it is PLAY!
I enjoy PLAYING on my computer, editing book, playing with photoshop, etc.
I enjoy learning new languages, studying and reading.
I enjoy my church callings, especially teaching classes.
I love learning and practicing everything possible about energy.
I absolutely LOVE learning NEW, EXCITING things!

The things that fall in between WORK and PLAY are making meals and being creative, such as cross stitching. They should be, and in the past have been PLAY, but at this time feel stressful. I have determined I need to fix the problems so that these two activities will return to the PLAY category. I want to change my attitude for shopping and then that will be PLAY too!

It will be a Wonderful Life when I am able to PLAY ALL DAY and NEVER WORK! (See definitions above for WORK and PLAY)